@bigbear said in I can't even:
@penguinwrangler said in I can't even:
@quixoticjeremy said in I can't even:
Lived with my parents until I went off to college at 17, didn't live with them again after that.
I hope that is how it goes for you too. I had to move back in with my parents after my divorce, made $27,000 a year as a Sergeant for the Missouri Department of Corrections. Paid almost $10,000 a year in Child Support. $27,000 was gross too not net. That is what prompted me to get my 2-year degree and get into IT. Which I could not have done without my parents' help.
Crazy, everyone I know goes for 50/50 custody mostly because of this. Yet then the kids get to live with two broke parents, usually one or both parents returning home. My sister's kids have all grown up at my parents house.
I was curious, in paying child support, do both you and your wife not have to pay taxes on that amount?
I pay taxes on my income that I use to pay child support. Child support is not pre-tax. My ex-wife lives in a rural area so $10,000 is a lot of money there, most houses are under $80,000 in the town they live in. She had a good job but has never been able to hold down a job so she basically lived off of my child support. So even though I paid child support, I bought the kids clothes, shoes, etc. If they needed something extra at school they would just ask me. Also if they needed some money at school for something a lot of times, my friend the tech director at the school would pay it and then I would pay him back the next time I saw him.