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    • DashrenderD
      Dashrender @scottalanmiller
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      @scottalanmiller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

      @MattSpeller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

      I see no issue with it, this is hardly a forum that will be browsed avidly by children.

      Probably not, but it would be nice if they felt comfortable using it AND if parents felt comfortable with them being here. Of course, in most work environments, like in NYC for sure, you would hear far worse in the office all of the time. No question there. Although there is something different about things being in print, than when things are spoken. It's not fleeting background noise, it's on peoples' screens as managers and coworkers walk by or whatever.

      this is the difference between a casual conversation and a post on Twitter or FB... the print/foreverness of it.

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      • scottalanmillerS
        scottalanmiller @Alex Sage
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        @aaronstuder said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

        @scottalanmiller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

        Of course, in most work environments, like in NYC for sure, you would hear far worse in the office all of the time.

        or just walking down the street.....

        In NYC for sure.

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          Alex Sage @scottalanmiller
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          @scottalanmiller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

          In NYC for sure.

          That was my point! 😛

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          • scottalanmillerS
            scottalanmiller @Dashrender
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            @Dashrender said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

            My 2 cents - Titles should always be moderated, but the OP, if about an actual product name, should be left alone. And tags for a real product should be allowed, but only used to reference the aforementioned product(s).

            I had wondered about the tags (there isn't one yet, moderated or not) but had not formed an opinion. But I think that I agree, a tag for this case would be fine, as is the link. It's really only in the thread title that I see concern and mostly because it is unavoidable AND out of context when seen.

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            • JaredBuschJ
              JaredBusch @scottalanmiller
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              @scottalanmiller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

              @MattSpeller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

              I see no issue with it, this is hardly a forum that will be browsed avidly by children.

              Probably not, but it would be nice if they felt comfortable using it AND if parents felt comfortable with them being here. Of course, in most work environments, like in NYC for sure, you would hear far worse in the office all of the time. No question there. Although there is something different about things being in print, than when things are spoken. It's not fleeting background noise, it's on peoples' screens as managers and coworkers walk by or whatever.

              Of course the seeming Puritan views being pushed here have nothing to do with it. Japanese children grow up hearing what Americans consider swearwords used regularly on shows aimed at toddlers. It simply is not a thing to fear.

              *Not saying they don't have there own slate of issues. jsut swearing isn't one of them.

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              • MattSpellerM
                MattSpeller @Alex Sage
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                @aaronstuder said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=mangolassi.it+fuck

                Shit.

                0_1463694350619_upload-e959c30f-3e5d-4ea4-947b-b91659e29458

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                • JaredBuschJ
                  JaredBusch @MattSpeller
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                  @MattSpeller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                  @aaronstuder said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                  https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=mangolassi.it+fuck

                  Shit.

                  funny enough i wasn't on page 1.

                  but....
                  https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=mangolassi.it+fuck+%40jaredbusch

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                  • scottalanmillerS
                    scottalanmiller @JaredBusch
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                    @JaredBusch said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                    @scottalanmiller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                    @MattSpeller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                    I see no issue with it, this is hardly a forum that will be browsed avidly by children.

                    Probably not, but it would be nice if they felt comfortable using it AND if parents felt comfortable with them being here. Of course, in most work environments, like in NYC for sure, you would hear far worse in the office all of the time. No question there. Although there is something different about things being in print, than when things are spoken. It's not fleeting background noise, it's on peoples' screens as managers and coworkers walk by or whatever.

                    Of course the seeming Puritan views being pushed here have nothing to do with it. Japanese children grow up hearing what Americans consider swearwords used regularly on shows aimed at toddlers. It simply is not a thing to fear.

                    *Not saying they don't have there own slate of issues. jsut swearing isn't one of them.

                    I agree, I don't have an issue with it personally. But lots of people do or might, which gets into the question of... how far do you go to placate people who feel or might feel or we imagine will be offended? it's tough. all of us regulars don't care. It's the people reading casually or not piping up that we have to imagine what they will care about or not.

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                    • thwrT
                      thwr
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                      My 0.02c: Whatever the future way will be (mod first or not), just keep it transparent.

                      IMHO, a good community can't live without at least a certain amount of moderation. At least not with thousands of members. Problem is, moderation is and will probably ever be a tightrope walk, keeping it transparent should pay back at some point.

                      About the product: Funny name, but I would have a hard time to explain my documentations cover sheet ("How to use Fck" or "About Fck".) to my boss 🙂

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                      • DashrenderD
                        Dashrender
                        last edited by Dashrender

                        personally the F word doesn't bother me.... but seeing the C word, which is used in London by the gallon I wouldn't appreciate seeing.

                        It's a locality thing.

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                        • thanksajdotcomT
                          thanksajdotcom
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                          Swearing doesn't have the connotation that it used to. It's far more common, and sometimes, many times, to get a point across to the correct effect, it's necessary. It's all about reasonableness though. Too often rules are made because someone took something to some extreme and ruins it for the 99.9% of people who don't abuse the system.

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                          • MattSpellerM
                            MattSpeller @thwr
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                            @thwr said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                            My 0.02c:

                            Stingy bastard 😉

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                            • scottalanmillerS
                              scottalanmiller @thwr
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                              @thwr said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                              My 0.02c: Whatever the future way will be (mod first or not), just keep it transparent.

                              IMHO, a good community can't live without at least a certain amount of moderation. At least not with thousands of members. Problem is, moderation is and will probably ever be a tightrope walk, keeping it transparent should pay back at some point.

                              About the product: Funny name, but I would have a hard time to explain my documentations cover sheet ("How to use Fck" or "About Fck".) to my boss 🙂

                              Good point. I should have stuck a comment into the thread about why it was renamed. Didn't even occur to me as it felt so benign when I did it. My own oversight, no reason not to have explained it.

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                              • scottalanmillerS
                                scottalanmiller @thanksajdotcom
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                                @thanksajdotcom said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                                Swearing doesn't have the connotation that it used to.

                                Is that really true, Just curiosity really. But my gut says that it is less common now, not more. And that it used to be common speech and now we more broadly feel "offended" by it. Might be purely my impression.

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                                • JaredBuschJ
                                  JaredBusch @scottalanmiller
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                                  @scottalanmiller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                                  @thanksajdotcom said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                                  Swearing doesn't have the connotation that it used to.

                                  Is that really true, Just curiosity really. But my gut says that it is less common now, not more. And that it used to be common speech and now we more broadly feel "offended" by it. Might be purely my impression.

                                  I am not sure if people are more broadly offended, or just we cater more to the minority that are offended, period.

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                                  • scottalanmillerS
                                    scottalanmiller @JaredBusch
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                                    @JaredBusch said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                                    I am not sure if people are more broadly offended, or just we cater more to the minority that are offended, period.

                                    Good point, that's probably more accurate.

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                                    • thwrT
                                      thwr @MattSpeller
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                                      @MattSpeller said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                                      @thwr said in What the Poo and Moderation of Swearing:

                                      My 0.02c:

                                      Stingy bastard 😉

                                      Narf... ok, your point 😉

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                                      • Minion QueenM
                                        Minion Queen Banned
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                                        I a only able to read some of this. There is a community guideline against swearing. Been there since day one.

                                        I do not moderate all swear words but on a few other moderators advice i did need for it to be stated that we shouldn't allow it.

                                        I cant find it from my phone but take a look at the guidelines.

                                        I will read all this through more carefully later when its not on my tiny screen.

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