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    • thanksajdotcomT
      thanksajdotcom @scottalanmiller
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      @scottalanmiller said:

      It's like dating. No woman wants you when you are single, get a girlfriend and every girl wants you.

      My point exactly. Is forbidden fruit really considered that much sweeter?!

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      • nadnerBN
        nadnerB
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        The grass is always greener on the other side. It's only when you get there that you realise that it's fertilised with BS.

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        • thanksajdotcomT
          thanksajdotcom
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          My grandmother has a picture of four cows and a fence in a plus shape and each has its head through the barbed wire eating the grass on the other side of the fence of the cow next to it. It nicely illustrates that it's all the same grass. Lol

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          • JoyJ
            Joy @scottalanmiller
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            @scottalanmiller said:

            It's like dating. No woman wants you when you are single, get a girlfriend and every girl wants you.

            Plus 1 hahah @ajstringham get one 😛

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            • thanksajdotcomT
              thanksajdotcom @Joy
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              @Joyfano said:

              @scottalanmiller said:

              It's like dating. No woman wants you when you are single, get a girlfriend and every girl wants you.

              Plus 1 hahah @ajstringham get one 😛

              I'm working on it, trust me!

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              • JoyJ
                Joy @thanksajdotcom
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                @ajstringham said:

                @Joyfano said:

                @scottalanmiller said:

                It's like dating. No woman wants you when you are single, get a girlfriend and every girl wants you.

                Plus 1 hahah @ajstringham get one 😛

                I'm working on it, trust me!

                Great.. Expedite you need to get one to play with you. ( 6 monitor) 😛

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                • thanksajdotcomT
                  thanksajdotcom @Joy
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                  @Joyfano said:

                  @ajstringham said:

                  @Joyfano said:

                  @scottalanmiller said:

                  It's like dating. No woman wants you when you are single, get a girlfriend and every girl wants you.

                  Plus 1 hahah @ajstringham get one 😛

                  I'm working on it, trust me!

                  Great.. Expedite you need to get one to play with you. ( 6 monitor) 😛

                  I'm not sure how to take that...

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                  • alexntgA
                    alexntg
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                    It typically takes 1.5-2 months from posting a resume to start getting nibbles. I'm not quite sure why that is, but it is.

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                    • ?
                      A Former User
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                      because it takes time for folks to see the resume.

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                      • scottalanmillerS
                        scottalanmiller
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                        And time for them to go through them and get around to responding.

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                        • C
                          Carnival Boy
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                          Does the old-fashioned process of advertising a vacancy and then having candidates apply no longer exist? Do employers now have to find employees rather than vice versa? I posted a vacancy on one of the UK leading job sites last week and have basically had zero response.

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                          • art_of_shredA
                            art_of_shred Banned
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                            Why, if that's the way it works, haven't guys figured out how to beat the system? Just date any girl that comes along and is desperate enough to date you. Then, dangle her like bait so the other girls get curious and move in closer. Then, grab one of them. Could it be that simple? Have I just unwittingly unlocked one of the secret hacks of the universe?

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                              Carnival Boy @art_of_shred
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                              @art_of_shred said:

                              Just date any girl that comes along and is desperate enough to date you.

                              This was my policy at school. It didn't lead to any other girls though.

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                              • art_of_shredA
                                art_of_shred Banned
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                                Maybe it becomes obvious when you're doing it intentionally.

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                                • JoyJ
                                  Joy @thanksajdotcom
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                                  @ajstringham said:

                                  @Joyfano said:

                                  @ajstringham said:

                                  @Joyfano said:

                                  @scottalanmiller said:

                                  It's like dating. No woman wants you when you are single, get a girlfriend and every girl wants you.

                                  Plus 1 hahah @ajstringham get one 😛

                                  I'm working on it, trust me!

                                  Great.. Expedite you need to get one to play with you. ( 6 monitor) 😛

                                  I'm not sure how to take that...

                                  Now come on A.J. lots of ideas now.
                                  You better try all of these 🙂

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                                  • alexntgA
                                    alexntg @Carnival Boy
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                                    @Carnival-Boy said:

                                    Does the old-fashioned process of advertising a vacancy and then having candidates apply no longer exist? Do employers now have to find employees rather than vice versa? I posted a vacancy on one of the UK leading job sites last week and have basically had zero response.

                                    That's fairly accurate. When there were fewer job sites, it was easier to search them all and apply directly. There's always a company's own site, but those positions usually attract people interested in the company more so than people qualified for the positions. Now, with a dilution in job sites, it's hard for candidates to find the right listings. This is why recruiters are popular. It's becoming common for a company to partner up with a recruiting firm to find candidates for their open positions. I've seen the positive impact that doing so can have on a company.

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                                    • alexntgA
                                      alexntg @art_of_shred
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                                      @art_of_shred said:

                                      Why, if that's the way it works, haven't guys figured out how to beat the system? Just date any girl that comes along and is desperate enough to date you. Then, dangle her like bait so the other girls get curious and move in closer. Then, grab one of them. Could it be that simple? Have I just unwittingly unlocked one of the secret hacks of the universe?

                                      Been there, done that, and it got way complicated.

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                                      • ?
                                        A Former User
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                                        unhappy at your current job? hey use it as a way to move to another job.

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                                        • thanksajdotcomT
                                          thanksajdotcom @A Former User
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                                          @Hubtech said:

                                          unhappy at your current job? hey use it as a way to move to another job.

                                          After today, I am thinking very hard that I may need to be looking, and not as casually as I have been.

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                                            RAM.
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                                            Forward me some of those emails 😛

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