Looks like going on site is still required because I have no idea if IIS is already installed - my guess is it isn't.
oh well, good information to have if I ever need it in the future.
Yeah, if you're going on site - skip all this and just put on VNC.
my thoughts exactly, But I figured if there was a way to do this without having to go on site, it would make it so much easier.
guess I can mark this as solved.