What Are You Doing Right Now
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@tiagom said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
I just don't understand why it would be that way. What is there to gain by giving others bad advise.
Read this, it's a life changer: https://www.amazon.com/Predictably-Irrational-Revised-Expanded-Decisions/dp/0061353248
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@tiagom said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
I cant tell you how many times i get tickets similar to this..
The bounce back clearly states the problem. I just copy the bounce back and put it as my reply lol.
Normally I do too but this ticket wasn't a forward of the bounce message AND it was from someone else... bucket of fail... I'm not wasting anymore time than I have to on this one.
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Basically, it's all emotions. At least in most cases. Some examples....
- I did it X way and I see someone else asking how to do things, I have to say to do X as well because if I don't it implies that I did something wrong and I can't let that happen.
- I did X at work and my boss will think that it was foolish if everyone doesn't agree with someone else online that X isn't the only option.
- I did X, it has to be the only viable option even if other peoples' scenarios are not the same as mine.
Things like that. An emotional response that makes you feel that what you did, everyone else has to do too. Both to support what you did, butalso because you have to maintain the same recommendations.
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@tiagom it's the same logic where people freak out about RAID 5 changing from "standard" from 1992 - 2009, then "unthinkable" from 2009 - SSDs took over, then "standard" for SSDs again. People tend to hear the current advice and apply it to decisions made decades ago and think that people are telling them that those old decisions are somehow wrong even though it's a completely different scenario.
If someone figures out new ways to do things, people who did them the old way tend to feel offended, as if it was wrong to do things the only way that they knew how. It's totally illogical, but it is how a lot of people operate.
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@tiagom said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
What i find is that even when they are proven wrong they still defend it.
Because they feel that if they defend it, that maybe people who are watching won't agree that they are wrong, even thought they normally sound crazier and crazier.
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@scottalanmiller Interesting, Ive read the preview of the book. What a way to change your outlook on life when you have third-degree burns on 70% of your body.
Ordering the book now.
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@nadnerB Lol thats hilarious.
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@tiagom said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
@scottalanmiller Interesting, Ive read the preview of the book. What a way to change your outlook on life when you have third-degree burns on 70% of your body.
Ordering the book now.
Truly a great book. Taught me a lot about how people act.
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I feel like this place is extra quiet tonight. SW, too. Haven't seen a post there in hours. Haven't gotten any responses to emails and texts that I sent, either. Has something happened outside of Houston?
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The five year old came in and asked "can I have some sleepwear?"
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@scottalanmiller said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
I feel like this place is extra quiet tonight. SW, too. Haven't seen a post there in hours. Haven't gotten any responses to emails and texts that I sent, either. Has something happened outside of Houston?
It is very quiet, I'm still around... just have other things to do.
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@nadnerB said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
@scottalanmiller said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
I feel like this place is extra quiet tonight. SW, too. Haven't seen a post there in hours. Haven't gotten any responses to emails and texts that I sent, either. Has something happened outside of Houston?
It is very quiet, I'm still around... just have other things to do.
We need to get this party going!
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what should I bring... hmmm... quick inventory of food stock...
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I'll bring some tomato relish and cheese
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and a muesli bar
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I have a few drops of cold coffee, that's about it.
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I also have a jar of instant coffee and the urn down the hallway has just been volunteered...
brb. Caffeine to fix...EDIT:.... aaaaannndddd we're back on air
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@nadnerB said in What Are You Doing Right Now:
I also have a jar of instant coffee and the urn down the hallway has just been volunteered...
brb. Caffeine to fix...EDIT:.... aaaaannndddd we're back on air
Dare I ask what kind of urn?
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Not the one that contains lightly toasted dead people.
The joyful type that is wall mounted and boils water