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    • JoyJ
      Joy @JaredBusch
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      @JaredBusch said:

      @Joy said:

      Sorry i was referring for the Old apartment that i been lived before in the province.
      right now the commute should be 5 to 10 mins only but sometimes it will take 30 t0 45 mins due to traffic

      Ok, now this is more clear.

      You could commute from home and have lower living expenses, but that is 3 hours one way.
      =Yes, and most of the time traffic is really worst

      You have opted for bed space knowing it is higher living expenses, but much closer to work with only 15 minutes of commute time.
      =True,

      So this part of things is how much does the higher cost of living affect your goals for income?

      =Yes, I was thinking additional about the tax

      Determine that and then you will be able to begin to determine how much more they would be required to offer you in order for you to take a job again with your prior employer.

      = I already asked them about it, They said same money, same responsibilities

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      • StrongBadS
        StrongBad @Joy
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        @Joy said:

        = I already asked them about it, They said same money, same responsibilities

        Don't ask, tell. This is not for them to decide. They need you, you don't want them. You tell them what your numbers are and end it at that. Don't let them make any decision except to accept your offer or not. This is not something for you to let them control. The power is yours unless you give it up.

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        • JoyJ
          Joy @StrongBad
          last edited by Joy

          @StrongBad said:

          @Joy said:

          = I already asked them about it, They said same money, same responsibilities

          Don't ask, tell. This is not for them to decide. They need you, you don't want them. You tell them what your numbers are and end it at that. Don't let them make any decision except to accept your offer or not. This is not something for you to let them control. The power is yours unless you give it up.

          Hmm okay I'll do that just in case they will ask me again.
          I need to Weigh my decision

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          • StrongBadS
            StrongBad @Joy
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            @Joy said:

            @StrongBad said:

            @Joy said:

            = I already asked them about it, They said same money, same responsibilities

            Don't ask, tell. This is not for them to decide. They need you, you don't want them. You tell them what your numbers are and end it at that. Don't let them make any decision except to accept your offer or not. This is not something for you to let them control. The power is yours unless you give it up.

            Hmm okay I'll do that just in case they will ask me again.
            I need to weight my decision making .

            No need to wait for them. Determine the amount that you want for the job and make an offer to them. You are the driver here.

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            • DashrenderD
              Dashrender @StrongBad
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              @StrongBad said:

              @Joy said:

              @StrongBad said:

              @Joy said:

              = I already asked them about it, They said same money, same responsibilities

              Don't ask, tell. This is not for them to decide. They need you, you don't want them. You tell them what your numbers are and end it at that. Don't let them make any decision except to accept your offer or not. This is not something for you to let them control. The power is yours unless you give it up.

              Hmm okay I'll do that just in case they will ask me again.
              I need to weight my decision making .

              No need to wait for them. Determine the amount that you want for the job and make an offer to them. You are the driver here.

              That's true, if you want to work there again - I'd call them back and make them the offer you want. You could even let them know that you're genuinely interested in working there again, but that your experience at this point now provides the requirement of this higher level of pay.

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              • StrongBadS
                StrongBad @Dashrender
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                @Dashrender said:

                @StrongBad said:

                @Joy said:

                @StrongBad said:

                @Joy said:

                = I already asked them about it, They said same money, same responsibilities

                Don't ask, tell. This is not for them to decide. They need you, you don't want them. You tell them what your numbers are and end it at that. Don't let them make any decision except to accept your offer or not. This is not something for you to let them control. The power is yours unless you give it up.

                Hmm okay I'll do that just in case they will ask me again.
                I need to weight my decision making .

                No need to wait for them. Determine the amount that you want for the job and make an offer to them. You are the driver here.

                That's true, if you want to work there again - I'd call them back and make them the offer you want. You could even let them know that you're genuinely interested in working there again, but that your experience at this point now provides the requirement of this higher level of pay.

                If you are going to start stating reasons, you could also mention that you are currently employed and happy, all of the benefits that you are getting, your career growth and point out that going to them is you doing them a favor. Companies like to act like they are doing you a favor by giving you a job. But that is not at all the case here. You are completely doing them a favor to help them out. You should not be doing them a favor by stepping backwards in your career as well.

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                • NetworkNerdN
                  NetworkNerd
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                  I did not see anyone throw out the option of just doing some consulting work on a part-time basis for the old company. Is that possible as a temporary option? Tell them you will work X hours at your desired rate (remotely, of course), and give them a specific time period for which you will consult. So to some degree it would help both parties as long as you feel you will not jeopardize meeting your responsibilities at your current job. The old place may want someone full time, but you would at least be making an effort to help.

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                  • scottalanmillerS
                    scottalanmiller
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                    I suspect that few full time jobs there would allow moonlighting. Work contracts tend to be pretty strict.

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                    • C
                      Carnival Boy
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                      I don't think I've ever had a contract that prohibits moonlighting.

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                      • scottalanmillerS
                        scottalanmiller @Carnival Boy
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                        @Carnival-Boy said:

                        I don't think I've ever had a contract that prohibits moonlighting.

                        I certainly have. Nearly any salary job in the US does so sort of by default because salary implies "full time" meaning your time is not your own. You get time "not working" but not "working for someone else." The implication is that all of your paid-for brain power belongs to the company paying the salary and if you are doing work for someone else while on salary that you are stealing from the company that is willing to pay the premium salary for you to either be working for them or "relaxing."

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                        • scottalanmillerS
                          scottalanmiller
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                          An hourly job effectively cannot stop you from moonlighting in the US because the moment you are not being paid they have no say over what you do. The moment that they have say, they owe you income. So there are different approaches with different thoughts behind them.

                          Of course, much of anything comes down to the local judge and how they choose to view the social or even written contract. But nearly any salaried job I've seen is explicit in that you cannot do anything paid outside of work unless approved. Even volunteer stuff is sometimes a grey area (but never seen a company complain about that.)

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                          • DashrenderD
                            Dashrender
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                            Wow, interesting take, and one I've never seen or heard of before.

                            I'll grant you that in my current position, moving from a one man MSP to a full time employee, my new job granted me the privilege to continue supporting my old clients as long as it didn't interfere with my duties at the new employer. This was further explained, if my employer and an old client were both having an outage situation at the same time, my new employer took precedence. For 8 years this has worked pretty well.

                            I have an associate who does something similar. He works full time for another big company (Conagra). He's salary there full time, M-F 8-5. He works a near half time at night for a clinic in town, working M-F 6-10.

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                            • scottalanmillerS
                              scottalanmiller @Dashrender
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                              @Dashrender lots of good companies work that way. But many do not. And many leave it to individual managers to "look the other way." Nearly anywhere I've worked that is salary includes a contract stipulation that anything you create during your term of employment belongs to them - which would include intellectual property that you do while at another job creating an obvious conflict of interest.

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                              • DashrenderD
                                Dashrender @scottalanmiller
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                                @scottalanmiller said:

                                @Dashrender lots of good companies work that way. But many do not. And many leave it to individual managers to "look the other way." Nearly anywhere I've worked that is salary includes a contract stipulation that anything you create during your term of employment belongs to them - which would include intellectual property that you do while at another job creating an obvious conflict of interest.

                                I'm guessing that stipulations like that would mostly come into play when you're earning 80K+, but that of course wouldn't be exclusively so. And frankly even at 80K I could consider this an unfair requirement. Now 150K or 200+, different story...

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                                • scottalanmillerS
                                  scottalanmiller @Dashrender
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                                  @Dashrender said:

                                  I'm guessing that stipulations like that would mostly come into play when you're earning 80K+, but that of course wouldn't be exclusively so. And frankly even at 80K I could consider this an unfair requirement. Now 150K or 200+, different story...

                                  Only so unfair. People making $80K are just as likely to go invent something cool and new using the brain power that the customer is paying for.

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                                  • scottalanmillerS
                                    scottalanmiller
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                                    Customer being the employer, in this case. Odd term to use there on my part.

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                                    • DashrenderD
                                      Dashrender
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                                      Yeah, this is where some universities are screwing their students over by claiming the rights of invention while students are enrolled there.

                                      I suppose an employee of a company owes anything created that's easily understood to be in the realm that that company is doing as belonging to the employer, but if it's outside of that, it should be the employees, not the employers.

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                                      • scottalanmillerS
                                        scottalanmiller @Dashrender
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                                        @Dashrender said:

                                        Yeah, this is where some universities are screwing their students over by claiming the rights of invention while students are enrolled there.

                                        I wonder how well that holds up in court as the students would be then employed without being paid. It would violate a huge number of employment laws - you can't legally charge people to go to work, not providing healthcare coverage, not insuring the students, not paying minimum wage, etc.

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                                        • scottalanmillerS
                                          scottalanmiller @Dashrender
                                          last edited by

                                          @Dashrender said:

                                          I suppose an employee of a company owes anything created that's easily understood to be in the realm that that company is doing as belonging to the employer, but if it's outside of that, it should be the employees, not the employers.

                                          That becomes difficult to define. And is a bit unfair. If you work for a company like GE, what do they not do? An employee there would legally have zero IP rights, whereas an employee of a company that does something really specific might get loads of rights.

                                          I've had employers claim that they are in the "business of business" and therefore every company is their competitor and any product is something in which they were interested.

                                          And legitimately, that's not as evil as it sounds (it's evil how they use that, but not in the theory of it.) Businesses really are generally opportunistic and go into whatever business opportunity that presents itself.

                                          So think of it this way.... if you offer the idea to your employer and they decline to pursue it, you'd have a strong case. But if you feel any need to not tell them about it and intend to pursue it after you leave, I think you already know that you are likely violating the spirit of that situation.

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                                          • JoyJ
                                            Joy @NetworkNerd
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                                            @NetworkNerd said:

                                            I did not see anyone throw out the option of just doing some consulting work on a part-time basis for the old company. Is that possible as a temporary option? Tell them you will work X hours at your desired rate (remotely, of course), and give them a specific time period for which you will consult. So to some degree it would help both parties as long as you feel you will not jeopardize meeting your responsibilities at your current job. The old place may want someone full time, but you would at least be making an effort to help.

                                            I did consulting work for the Business partner of my old company before and they can call me anytime if they need me.

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